Psychology!
Aight aight - you think only Miz got the trivial stuff in her head? Anyway, I got this really interesting thing from some psychology book. That people who do not love themselves are prone to fall in love with someone who hates them/treats them badly. Weird ain't it?
Somehow, someway, they're addicted to pain. Thinking (subconciously or conciously) they deserve all the crap that has been given to them. And if they did get a sweet loving person, they get sort of restless. Wondering when is that girl or guy gonna dump them and break their itty bitty hearts. And when their lover don't, they wanted to know what's taking him/her so long to just dump them! It's like, they don't think they deserve the person they're dating. And most probably, they broke up the relationship because they think something is - just - not - right.
But not many people do that. Breaking sweet caring people that is. Coz they'd probably realise that probably some part of them that attracted the opposite sex so much, he/she actually wanted them.
So if you see people who have relationship problems but stayed on anyway, maybe he/she have this sort of problem (even though their partners are a pain in neck). In their brains, they think that atleast somebody loves them even how mean he/she can be. See how low-esteem can damage people's brain?!
--psychology rocks my tiny pink boots!
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